Smacking a child is an ineffective form of discipline for children, as it only has short term effects.

It teaches that it is normal to hit someone when you are angry. It gives a distorted way of expressing anger. It teaches children to be afraid of their own Mum and Dad.
Parents should teach their children to be non-violent to control their anger.

There are alternatives to smacking, like withdrawing privileges, time out, sending them to bed early, confiscating toys, doing lines, making them do menial tasks. I understand if loving parents feel it is the only way to control their children. Smacking should not be treated the same as assault. It should be seen as using inappropriate discipline, not assault.

Parents need to be educated on alternatives to smacking. Parents should set a good example to their children on how to be non-violent. It is inconsistent with the teachings of Christ, as Jesus is taught non-violence and did not hit anyone. We should teach children to love and respect their parents, not fear or resent them. Colin Craig needs to soften the law against smacking, not overturn the smacking ban.

A Authier,
Mount Maunganui.