Let's make NZ bullying-free

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If we want to make New Zealand a bully-free country then we are all going to have to work together.

Ahead of Bullying-Free NZ Week which takes place across the country from May 22-26, the Bullying Prevention Advisory Group launched a new website offering online resources to support schools, parents and their communities this week.

The www.BullyingFree.NZ resources include a new parent pack with information and tips for parents, carers and whānau on how to deal with and talk to children about bullying issues.

The website also includes resources for professional development workshops that step through what bullying is, responding to bullying behaviour, and bullying-prevention.

Bullying-Free NZ Week is an annual event run by the BPAG, a collaboration of 18 organisations which includes representatives from across the education, social, justice and health sectors, as well as Netsafe and human rights advocacy groups.

This year's theme is ‘NZ students with solutions - working together to end bullying', acknowledging the importance of listening to students' voices and experiences, and the need for everyone to work together to prevent bullying behaviour.

Lorraine Kerr NZ School Trustees Association president says the awareness week is a chance to bring the whole school together to talk about the issue.

'Real change happens when everyone shares responsibility for making sure schools are safe and inclusive.

'Trustees have an important role in making sure their school takes steps to involve staff, students, parents and carers in developing robust processes that build a culture of inclusion and respect.”

The week ends with Pink Shirt Day, 26 May, when New Zealanders speak up, stand together to stop bullying and celebrate diversity in schools, workplaces and communities. During the week, schools can run classroom activities, get students talking about bullying, and review their anti-bulling policy.

Secretary for Education Iona Holsted says all students need to feel safe and secure at school. School leaders, teachers, students and whānau need to work together to ensure that this is the case.

'Unfortunately, bullying is a serious issue all schools will face at one time or another, which has a significant impact on students' wellbeing and learning.

'These new resources will help the whole school community – leaders, teachers, students, parents and whānau – to share a common understanding and commitment to tackling bullying behaviour.”

NZ Police Prevention Manager: Community Focus Inspector Paula Holt says it is important schools work with parents and the wider school community to get the message out that bullying is never OK.

Police are committed to working with parents and communities, in particular schools, to help reduce bullying, she adds.

'Bullying doesn't stop at the school gate. Adults have a role in modelling the behaviour they want to see at school and home, and effective prevention needs the support of the whole school community working together to build an environment where everyone feels safe.”

While Netsafe chief executive officer Martin Cocker says increasingly bullying amongst students doesn't just happen at school. Often if the bullying is happening offline, it's happening online too.

But one of the difficulties with online bullying is children can feel like there's 'no escape” because it doesn't stop when they leave the school grounds, explains Martin.

'It's important that parents and carers teach kids how to stay safe and where to get help if they need it, as well as how to behave positively toward each other online and offline.”

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7 comments

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Posted on 20-05-2017 10:45 | By astex

All the PC talk over the years has shown to have virtually no effect on reducing the bullying. Fact is that bullies pick on those that show weakness. Many years ago my son was being bullied at school by one particular boy. After taking some advice from me the next day my son gave him a good tap on the nose. I can hear the PC brigade gasping with horror but the truth was that the bullying ended immediately and no-one ever bullied my son again. Bullies are actually cowards who will run away from anything that threatens them.


I find it hard to get my head around....

Posted on 20-05-2017 11:05 | By groutby

...this "bullying" thing . As an "older fart" we usually have different views than young on most topics, and yay to to that.... bullying is nothing new, how it's done has grown with the internet . I do have sympathy for those being affected by this, but "in my day" (oh gawd here he goes !!..) you dealt with it...OR the bully!..I was a recipient of bullying (like many), small build, actually interested to be at school and had extraordinarily high moral specs from my parents. Perfect "bullying" material yes?... I had enough of it. One time a frequent "giver" of bullying was by himself ( mental weaklings prefer groups...) received an "appropriate" reply from me. .all stopped in a heartbeat! As for words? (texts etc)..they are exactly that..got a delete button?..know about safety within social media?..sadly our "Snowflake" society has restricted our human response, it work


@Astex and Groutby

Posted on 20-05-2017 11:39 | By Papamoaner

Yes, the internet hasn't helped, likewise TV. Dare I offend the Kiwi sacred cow and suggest that a mad obsession with rugby is also a root cause. These games are all about winners and losers, disguised as sport. Team spirit be buggered. It's reflected in many ways, eg; driver behaviour on the roads. Parent behaviour on the sidelines. We can analyse these causes ad nauseum, but nature evolves solutions in the end which is why I agree with Astex. Apart from the effective knee jerk counter punch Astex correctly advocates, a little bit of measured revenge, cunningly applied can produce a good result too. Today's bullies are tomorrow's psychopaths. Summary justice is what they understand.


golly gosh

Posted on 20-05-2017 11:46 | By old trucker

Agree with By groutby ,I was exactly like you,good manners etc,never answered back etc,till i lost it one day, same as you, a square nose STOPPED it,he was on his own and did not like it, without his so called mates,he was Gutless useless waste of space and his mates never stuck with him after this as they were scared of him,ive always been a loner so know how other people feel, STAND up to them,reporting to Teachers etc DOES NOT work,my thoughts only,No1 ,Thankyou ,10-4.


Bullying

Posted on 20-05-2017 13:27 | By Linaire

I have 5 children and over the years they were bullied on occasions at primary, intermediate and college. And not by children who you THINK might be bullies either - these were bullies from well-to-do families! On one occasion I had to go to the Principal of the College, as it got so bad .. and the bully's parents were extremely horrified to find out their child was a bullying brat! To me, the people who stand around watching the bullying happening, and not intervening or reporting it, are just as bad as the bully.


@Linaire

Posted on 20-05-2017 16:31 | By Papamoaner

What you said, I have also seen. And as you say, the worst ones are the calculating brats from wealthy families. In my experience the girls are worse bullies than the boys - more subtle, more scheming.From Albert Einstein - "The world is made dangerous not by those who do evil, but by those who watch and do nothing"


nz

Posted on 25-05-2017 20:30 | By Capt_Kaveman

has to be the worse country for this


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